Tough to read all of that Heavy, sounds like you did a great job. There's nothing worse than having to argue against things that actually didn't happen.
Like Fogg said though, it may have been her experience that was different than yours and she's just basing her reactions off of that experience.
Reality is so subjective, especially in hindsight. Especially when it's being used to justify actions that we aren't proud of or make us emotional.
Keep your chin up, I'm sending you a hug.
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