Just realizing how much more at peace I am when I am away for work and out of the house. I know this is in good part due to GAL, but another big factor is just not being in the same house as H. There is just so much tension right now, so the fact he will be traveling so much the next two months kis a relief. One, for him to get a better dose of reality of life without me around, and two for my sanity. An active A is not easy to live with, especially when you are confident it is be brought into your personal space.
Living in the same house was not as much if an issue before I knew about A. Since the A has been exposed, it has added a new dynamic. It also has only been 6 weeks since the A was out in the open, and even then, it was supposively over, but within a 2 weeks I knew that it was still active.
I felt it necessary to set boundry about A in house, but this seems to have made H much more spiteful and the spew coming out is hard to hear. Note, I never demanded that he end A. I just don't want it in my home, which seems fair.
I know I have read on here that GAL and LRT are key in reattracting WAH and making them realize what they are missing. Do I do not worry about the current anger and spew as long as I hit GAL and detaching hard after setting boundry and confronting H about lying about active A? I just feels things are getting worse, not better. I just can't see him being loving and nice to me again after some of the sh!t that he has said.
Can someone recommend another LBW (vet) on here has navigated an active A well so I can read their threads?
Goodnight from Dublin!!
Last edited by BW05; 06/06/1508:16 PM.
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015
