I agree Matt. I think it shows how thick the fog can be for them. My W was saying all this in the middle of her affair. It baffles me; but I know I will never understand it. I just have to try and be the lighthouse. My W doesn't dictate my happiness, I do, and my D2 does smile

Me: 32 Her: 29
M: 5 T: 11
D2
ILYBINILWY: Jan 15
BD: 2/13/15 (I found out, she didn't tell me)
W filed for D after I confronted OM 5-27-15
Papers served 6-3-15
Temporary Order 7-15-15
W Moved out 7-17-15