However, she has said this about twenty times now and again I said no, I can't be your friend. She started to cry about us being friends for the past 20 years and how I would be throwing all of that away. I said "this is your choice, you took a lover and are divorcing me remember?" She states divorce doesn't have to be this way. I said "What did you expect would happen when you took an AP. She says I have no value in her as a person but only as a wife which means property. This language is all straight from her circus freak open marriage AP.
Dear Heavy!
First, thanks for your post in my thread. I have not been logged in almost all week.
I love the way you are standing your ground with your W. Your responses were so good, in my opinion.
I know you are struggling so much. Can you try to get involved with more GAL things? I understand it is difficult (really, I do!) but it helps clear my mind and detach more from my W. If we're meant to R, this is my only chance, I believe and have been taught here, to draw her back to me.
I'll pray for you right now!
*Hugs*
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
