A few posts in this thread and Zues thread has given me food for thought. I am feeling more optimistic about my life without H. Spoke to my DB coach this week and even entertained the idea of not wanting to be 'friends'. At BD, I considered any contact was better than nothing at all.
Its fantastic how this forum has allowed me to revaluate some of my thinking and given me a glimpse through my own 'fog'
Both 47 M 20 T25 S 18 EA July 11- Jan 12. ILYBNILWY Oct EA April 13 -July 13 Move to work abroad Sept 14 re establish contact with OW while away D bomb 22/12/14 D filed papers served 17/03/15