I believe my 'fog' kept me in hurt and pain longer than it should. I am still learning to detach and working on myself. There is still a long way to go, despite it being a cliche, with time it is getting better.

I think the 'fog' prevented me from looking back at our M objectively. I took the blame for a long time and thought it was me that destroyed the M. It wasn't healthy despite 20 years married.

Both 47 M 20 T25 S 18
EA July 11- Jan 12. ILYBNILWY Oct EA April 13 -July 13
Move to work abroad Sept 14
re establish contact with OW while away
D bomb 22/12/14 D filed papers served 17/03/15