anyone have advise for the above? Im really afraid that there is a potential we are both GAL'ing right now and its putting a further wedge between is. I kind of did that before without knowing it, and when she pushed more, i was stupid and oblivious... i feel she is doing it to me, so should i also be DBing right now? i feel that's important to add to my horrible and confusing stich...?
Yes you should be DB'ing
Trust the Process.
As Mr. Bond says read the books.
Are you thinking that something magical is going to turn this around?
