Well, that's just her wanting control over your life, and D2 is the tool she's going to use.

I have never heard where that would hold up legally in a D. (considering you aren't going out of state or something big) When your child is with you on your days, I don't think you have to reveal your private/personal plans to the XW. You need to get legal advice about what she can do and not do. But don't just listen to her. Find out for yourself.

I can hear something in your posts. I hear a man who is use to following along with whatever the W says, and now you are either doing the same about the MC.....or it's you hoping it will turn things around. I suppose you will just have to see for yourself.

She will take control and use the MC sessions to bash you and get the C to side with her, as a mother, and she will walk out of there having you to follow whatever she wants. Only you can stand up for yourself and take back control over your own life.

Find out the facts before you do anything.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!