This is the second Saturday morning I've awaken knowing that my W slept with the OW the night before. Guess I'm doing better with it this week; last Saturday morning, we fought. This morning, I'm just being detached.

I was out on the town with a friend last night and really did keep myself distracted, and was tired enough to fall right asleep once I got home. She has a full day with an open house and working out and meeting with her Stephen Minister. Last I heard, she'd be home after that for the night, but that seems to have changed as now she's going to see an "investment property" at 5pm - with, no doubt, the OW.

I get the sense (from overhearing a phone conversation this week) that the OW is a bit pushy and clingy, and may have convinced her to make these plans. I know I'm not supposed to worry about it, but I confess I'm hoping for the beginnings of a little trouble in paradise.

Have an invitation to a party tonight that's a bit of a drive from here, from a mutual friend who invited us both. I might just sit on the couch and enjoy a quiet evening at home, though. I don't do that much these days, with all this GAL-ing.

I sure do miss spending those evenings on the couch with my W.

Wishing everyone a pleasant weekend.


Me: 46 Her: 41
M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18
3/26 W and I meet OW
BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring
W goes to stay with OW 6/26
NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16
I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19