My IC says not to file for D until H has moved his stuff
Is this just to mitigate his reaction when he's served divorce papers?
Yes. The D papers will not be pretty reading. I can also use the MP3 of h rants that I took to the police if I chose, they are recorded in his file. L says that it all goes in and the D will be quickly over.
I know in my case I've been waiting for the spectacular reactions and they shown themselves yet. My IC is recommending to be very careful post BD. That's when they'll most like come.
I think my H is in the stringing it out mode. He is collecting his stuff very slowly. That actually suits my purpose because as I will have to move then I am clearing as I go. But in fairness to me. I have much less in the way of chattels than H. Far fewer clothes etc to shift. But there is still items to move and boxes and boxes of it.
I want no drama, so I will let it unfold as it will.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
