I think you've come down on 25 TOO HARD. I get that you've been burned by your W's A and feel strongly about your position on exposure.
What I see here is that 25 is sharing some perspectives from others on the other side in the FB story. She was simply relaying how people reacted to the betrayed wife's post. If 25 had deleted any of the negative comments, then 25 would have been accused of being draconic in controlling the page. As with any FB postings, there will be negative posts.
For me personally, I am not in favor of exposure because the underlying premise is shaming the WAS into returning back to the M. Shaming a person and setting personal boundaries are two separate things. That is my position and I stand firmly by it.
I take issue with this comment:
[quote=Georgia Bulldogs] If I recall right, 25years had a emotional affair on her husband many years before that she's never disclosed or revealed to her husband and she had several affairs after they separated (her husband abandoned her so I may empathize a bit; but, I also understand her not wanting to run around town talking about/exposing her behavior). Her feelings about exposure should be understood in that light.
THIS^^ is false. It's a LIE. Please stop saying this.
I came here and shared a profoundly embarrassing moment of weakness in which I ALMOST had an emotional affair 22 years ago
which I worked out with an Army Chaplain
(I was in Desert Storm then, btw, and a continent and ocean away from my h and children),
and [i] I never had anything close to any type of A, ever again.
You did me a great disservice in recklessly spreading that lie.
Your spin on the fb page is also wildly inaccurate. I mean, WOW.
However, I'm too angry to write anymore.
And I think MWD said it well enough anyhow.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
