There is a lot of truth in V's post

"Forgiveness like love is a choice, an action that is possible. Some things cannot be forgiven and to do so may be damaging. To forget may also be difficult too. You can tell yourself I don't need to forgive, it's helpful to me and I can chose to do it. When I am ready then I can choose to forgive because otherwise I can't co parent my beautiful lovely son as effectively. I can choose to forgive for S sake but right now I choose not too. But I can decide and most likely will do that, but in the meantime I like not forgiving, it protects me and serves a purpose.
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Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2
M - 8/2008
W is not happy - 1/2014
W wants D - 9/2014
W moved out - 11/2014
D filed - 1/23/2015
D'ed - 2/25/2015
Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015