This is tougher than I imagined..

[Elly4]

Cherry, I so know what you're talking about with the trust issue. When my H told me that we were getting a D, I felt betrayed and have been having a rough time with the trust thing due to my background as well. In the beginning, before DBing, I mentioned my loss of trust due to this sitch and he said, "so the last 23 years did nothing?" He's been with me this long and still doesn't get it.

*hugs*
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