Well UD, after reading your thread I can see why you're such a success at giving people insight. Thank you so much for lending me your ears and eyes.
I can see that my H is probably afraid as well to try and bridge the gap-so much guilt and pain. He just hasn't processed enough. So, tonight I'll see how things go w/him and mention about the C session since he has yet to respond to my call from yesterday. (guess that shows he's withdrawing again)
It certainly is refreshing to know that there are a lot of winners here and I have witnessed a few of them myself. I feel that you are crossing that bridge and patience and time you will be just fine. I'll be waiting for more. Tootles.......
