Either way, I won't look back and be upset that I put effort in, that I held a tiny bit of hope, nor that I did work that will benefit me whether my W comes back or not. The benefit stays with me either way.
Well said! I struggle with when to start "moving on" just like everyone else is, but honestly aren't we all already moving on? IMO, it's just a slow pace, one day at a time, so we aren't noticing.
Me:36 W:30 M:2.75 T:7 BD: 4/2015 ILYBNILWY: 5/2015 W Moved Out: 5/2015 W filed for D: 7/2015