I have learned a lot on on this forced frog march. I have tried to conduct myself with dignity and have tried to do the right and honorable thing and live with integrity. I have stood for my comittments to my God, children, W and myself. I have reached out for help with counseling, support groups and the others. They have helped me in many many ways.
Like most of us on the board, I have not gone off the rails, drinking, drugging, having random sex - just going crazy to try and numb the pain and escape. So yes, maybe the fog protects us from the pain somewhat.
I am proud to belong to the DB Community. We are better people for the process regardless of our marriages/divorces.
