Kinda dark thoughts. I haven't read your stitch, but anything can be done if both parties want it. DB is about saving the LBS more than it is about winning back the WAS. It's only having a strong LBS that a WAS would even reconsider what they're doing.
Reconciliation doesn't always mean that the marriage is restored either.
It's not months that have been wasted. It's been time spent on you. What you did at the time made sense to you in the moment. You can't see the future and sometimes things do work out and people reunite. I have a neighbor who's WAW came back. You never know what's really in someone's head. You stood for your marriage... I don't know how that can be viewed as a bad thing?
The real question is what do you want to for your life without worrying about another. Only you can determine your next steps. Make them count for the rest of your life in whatever you do.
Me: 45 W43 S7, Foster S9 (Planning to adopt post divorce) D mentioned Feb 2015, Wife served 3/24/2015. She moved out 4/15/2015.
