Letting Go Part VI

[u-turn]

Heavy - I have the same feelings that you do - as I do things legally and financially for myself, the fight intensifies. Now with me speaking to a L, this will be another breaking point - another reason for her to hate me.

I see in your situation that putting the brakes on so your W will have to do the work to disassemble everything. You may not be the one who wants it, but are the one facilitating it. It is in your court to take as long as you need.

The heavy lifting does not have to come solely from you.

But acceptance doesn't have to feel like giving up - I am trying to get beyond that too.