Yesterday I did attempt to distance myself, I didn't chase or dote over her. I let her initiate any hugs, kisses, contact etc. At one point she asked if I was "ok" because I seemed distant. I reply that I was good & I was happy. I went out & she seemed a little more affectionate prior to me leaving & again when I got home, she really wanted to snuggle.
This A.M. she gave me a nice long kiss goodbye before work, told me she loved me!
So again I struggle because I can see that perhaps the distancing is the reason for her added attempts, but my mind keeps telling me that I don't want to seem uninterested because I fear that will cause her to pull away, stop trying!?!? I just don't know!