Hi Toots a ne Vanillia. Thanks for the kind words. I have had 6 texts from her this morning starting out with she's so sorry , she has no idea what she is doing, she loves us all more than anything and she hates herself !!!! I have set my boundaries Vanillia and Im sticking to it

Toots. I know I might be an idiot but I don't think is sexual as EXW has very bad problems with menopause and he is a drunk

I did speak to SIL at 1.30am this morning for 2' hours and she is adamant that EXW is not romantically worh OM she said EXW is in a terrible place and is hanging out with OM because he doesn't judge her

I just got 3 more text of EXW where she again is stating that she is not in a relationship with anyone and nor has she been. SL also confirmed EXWs body issue and does not think any woman would be interested in sex while that issue is on going.

Thanks for the support. Rd