Kembo, sorry you are in this position. It really hurts when our spouse files and we feel that they have not 'tried hard enough' to fight for the M.
I have said this before, I think our spouse hurt too and in their eyes they have tried the best that they can and can not think they can do more! I feel strongly about this in my situation.
It's hard but keep with the GAL and detachment. Hugs to you.
Both 47 M 20 T25 S 18 EA July 11- Jan 12. ILYBNILWY Oct EA April 13 -July 13 Move to work abroad Sept 14 re establish contact with OW while away D bomb 22/12/14 D filed papers served 17/03/15