I agree with U turn, for me, as soon as H made the decision that was it. He wanted to live a different life and that meant he could never go back to the M.
He is adamant him and OW are friends only, and I don't know if there is more but 'fog', I don't think so. Maybe is the LBS that's in the 'fog' for looking at the marriage through rose tinted spectacles.
Both 47 M 20 T25 S 18 EA July 11- Jan 12. ILYBNILWY Oct EA April 13 -July 13 Move to work abroad Sept 14 re establish contact with OW while away D bomb 22/12/14 D filed papers served 17/03/15