Thanks Matt. I started the DB book and it has really helped me so far. Yesterday was an OK day, it's hard not to dwell and obsess about things at work and I have brief moments of panic, but I took my D2 to a waterpark yesterday after work and that definitely helped remove all my fears and worries.

Hardest part now is my wife has completely removed herself from any interaction with me. I try to be upbeat and cordial when she says anything, but she mostly stays in her room after our D2 goes to bed.

Me: 32 Her: 29
M: 5 T: 11
D2
ILYBINILWY: Jan 15
BD: 2/13/15 (I found out, she didn't tell me)
W filed for D after I confronted OM 5-27-15
Papers served 6-3-15
Temporary Order 7-15-15
W Moved out 7-17-15