Lou, I think you handled the conversation via tm quite well. You were kind and willing to work w/him because of the accident. He sees that you are not vindictive and wish to punish him for his mistakes.
I'm glad to read that your belongings are now back on NZ soil! I'm sure you will be very happy to have your belongings back safe and sound. Have fun looking for things in the second hand shops. One person's trash is another person's treasures. I bet you will find some really cool stuff.
Enjoy your weekend!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
