OD we were thinking of Jamfest, it depends on workload at the moment though.

Karma thank you.

One day this week I performed well (Monday), Tuesday was tooth day and not so good. Wednesday was very poor indeed and yesterday was tail spin day with little done, I was exhausted so rested and then went to the gym and sauna. Good thing was I caught up a little with every ones posts on this board.

Did pack another 4 bags and 6 storage boxes of H stuff though for him to collect, I am looking for this phase to be over so I no longer have to find any item of H or his past life around in any location. I have another three or four boxes of H stuff ready to pack. I seem to have only just started, his office is packed, his clothes, shoes and now his "ornaments" and pictures. A little of his electrical goods, lamps, phones and mirrors packed. Next kitchen, bedding, towels, laundry, microwave and cookware. So much stuff, at least it will make moving easier!

H is off to Madeira on the 9th June and isn't back until the 19th, he should move his stuff from there. He is going for golf.

My IC says not to file for D until H has moved his stuff which is as fast as I can pack it and he can collect it. I am going as fast as I can manage and as fast as H brings storage boxes. Because I am selling the Big House then I don't want the house to look cluttered with boxes otherwise it would be "big b ang".

My IC describes this as "gently untangling" and says that I am too gentle. She thinks the results may be that H will perceive me as invested still in an R. When he realises that I am gone from any R then his reaction will be either anger at loss of control or severe depression. I should watch out for vindictive retaliation. I have to be careful to give H all of his things.

IC says H will likely crash in roughly 6 months but believes I am recovering a little. Trauma takes a long time of recovery. As for me I live each day, one day at a time, I can only deal with today and that is a handful.

I will work my sitch today.

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW