Mr. Bond has a gift for brevity. I do not.

Your IC and these folks are right. I'd say you're making a tremendous mistake, but it's obvious you aren't in control. If you had the strength to make your own decisions you might be able to realize that what you are doing is MORE destructive than what your WAS did. But it appears that you don't. Too bad. Your wife stumbled, and instead of manning up to save the M you gave up and free fell. You may regret this for the rest of your life, but maybe you can comfort yourself by telling yourself you couldn't have done any better. Which maybe is true for you.

Now, I challenge you to go to my thread and read my last post.

Yes I'm fiery. While the future is unknown things aren't looking good for my M. I don't take kindly to see others blowing a chance to save theirs.


Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15