So you said he had "multiple" A's in the past. How many was that? I have a feeling that he was in the WAS mode when he was in his first M and that he may have not told you everything that happened.
I have to also wonder if the age difference made a big difference. I mean you were only 20 years old when you went out with him while he was already 42.
How old is this current OW?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.