Hi ,Vanillia Thanks so much. Well much more happened this evening and basically EXW sent D14 meant for OM. Test said " hope you got bus ok and can't wait to get home. xx. It was D10s birthday today and D14 got he message just before I got home I came home with S20'and told EXW to leave. She said the text was for OMs sister who was looking after her cats while she was here.
I then told EXW I could not have the kids upset like this anymore s d while I appreciate she would not send text on purpose it was still hurtful
EXW ranted for a while then called down and I told her that the thing with OM was affecting the kids too much. EXW told me that he was just a friend and was going through a bad episode of his bi polar and she was seeing a lot of him at the moment. I asked where he slept and she said in her bed !!! At this point I explained that while I had excepted that our M was over I could no longer be her friend while she had OM as a friend I was very calm while she cried and said she was. very unhappy and didn't know why she was friends with OM. I just explianed that I was nt really interested and it was her life
There was more chat but it didn't amount to much. Kids have asked if they cannot see EXW for a while and I've told them to sleep on it
Im ok in mysef I'm just sad at what EXW seems to have become.
