The thing that strikes me about UC's thread is the level-headedness UC demonstrates through the process. He really is at his center for all his interactions with his W. I encourage you to read through it and envision yourself having that centeredness in dealing with your W.
I also love the advice given, in particular by Starsky309. Please look at it and envision yourself saying similar things when he advises UC on how to react to W's actions and words. Centered. Focused. Planned.
Unfortunately, UC hasn't achieved his goal yet. And that happens sometimes. But did UC give his best effort and do things that gave him the best chance at achieving his goal? I think so.
I hope you achieve your goals Angels. I'll be praying for you.
me: 45 W:45 M 20 years T 22 years S14, S13, S11, D9 BD 2/28/14 D papers served 3/3/14 I moved out 3/15/14 MC start 4/2/14 I moved in 6/2/14 D suit withdrawn 6/30/14
