Stay the course meaning keeping calm, not responding to her, GAL and just not being availble? Keep focused on what? The divorce? or keep focused on not reacting to her emotional swings.
I feel like we have physicaly split so why rehash the "20 year communication issues", the "not having a voice" issue or the classic "You call all the shots and things are always on your time table" issue. No matter what I say unless I just validate "Im sorry you feel that way."
Suggested Convesaton from Me to W
"All of this is becuase of your self centered choices and behaviors. You never consulted any of us with your choices or behaviors.
I really don't want to get into a text or email war, it's emotionally draining for me. Its almost like she should just flail about and whatever happens will.
When you confroned your W with your ^^ darts how did that go? Further aruments or did it accomplish any comprehension?