Heavy, I'm sorry this is a tough time. I think the bottom line is your W just doesn't want you guys to use L's and it's hard for her to give up on that one. My H was similar. But when I said to him - I have a L, it's up to you whether you get one - he went and got a L.

Cali - bless you. I always read your posts and loved the one above - www.tootswillsurviveregardless.com - that's where I am!!

Oops - that came out as a link - don't get excited...it doesn't actually lead anywhere!

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T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus