great points Matt, thanks for the words and encouragement today, you have no idea how much it has helped me mentally and emotionally.
Originally Posted By: Matt777
I'm just worried about your attitude right now. Nothing has ACTUALLY changed. So your W filed for D. So what?
I needed to hear this especially. The clock ticking makes me nervous and anxious, but from what I have heard D is definitely a long process. Also, it's been almost 4 months since BD, surely it takes much longer for WAW/WW to even have a chance to get out of the A fog? I would guess it hasn't even been a month since she has started legitimately mourning that relationship. Who knows
The clock may be ticking, but just to "official" "legal" separation. Again, it's not really any different from where you are now, emotionally. And again, who's to say that you can't R after divorce is finalized.
Instead of worrying about the legality and the what ifs and keeping score, focus on YOU and the things you want to do to be the you you deserve. Of course, easier said than done, but you can do it!
