This is really going to sound far fetched to you, but truly an A and an OM are in the long term less important than you taking care of you.
Only a tiny minority of As survive long term. OMs who seduce married women are scuzz buckets and eventually show true colours. Infatuation is an addiction and it's called limerance. At this stage WW will be so hormonally charged she can't see the truth about scuzz. The more you focus on it the more it becomes you and me babe against H. It's lurve isn't it?
Well actually no it's not.
That does not stop it hurting and being something you want differently. Right now you are in the emotional state of wanting to take action that might be knee jerking.
Sandi is correct in every respect and wise beyond measure, you are fortunate to have such a wonderful guide. Read her words carefully over and over.
A cool head and detachment are essential before you act on boundaries that are not properly set.
Stillness, space and prayer (meditation) will help you breathe. Settle, relax and consider as your actions may cause you to act in damaging ways which are hard to repair.
Peace
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
