I'm still catching up on the latest round of posts, but wanted to tell you...
You said:
I asked him what his biggest fear would be? He responded that he was afraid that we would go back to our old ways and being the same unhappy people, and he knew HE didn't want that and figured I didn't want it either. I concurred.
This is almost exactly the same thing my husband said to me before he came home!!
It boils down to fear...
But, the fact that your guppy is saying he can't even remember why he left in the first place means to me that he's much further along than my monkey was!
