great points Matt, thanks for the words and encouragement today, you have no idea how much it has helped me mentally and emotionally.

Originally Posted By: Matt777


I'm just worried about your attitude right now. Nothing has ACTUALLY changed. So your W filed for D. So what?


I needed to hear this especially. The clock ticking makes me nervous and anxious, but from what I have heard D is definitely a long process. Also, it's been almost 4 months since BD, surely it takes much longer for WAW/WW to even have a chance to get out of the A fog? I would guess it hasn't even been a month since she has started legitimately mourning that relationship. Who knows


Me: 32 Her: 29
M: 5 T: 11
D2
ILYBINILWY: Jan 15
BD: 2/13/15 (I found out, she didn't tell me)
W filed for D after I confronted OM 5-27-15
Papers served 6-3-15
Temporary Order 7-15-15
W Moved out 7-17-15