I'm just worried about your attitude right now. Nothing has ACTUALLY changed. So your W filed for D. So what? It's not an action with any real meaning - you can revoke that pretty easily. All it does is start a clock to when you are officially divorced. How is your life ACTUALLY any different from three days ago? If you consider the BD to be the divorce timing, you are really already divorced! You're already fired! So what difference do the legal formalities make?
