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Should i tell her to leave?


What do you want?

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I feel like ive been a doormat to much and now she is just taking advantage,


If you feel like a doormat, then there's a good chance you've filled the position. A WW will take advantage, even of the toughest guys. That is how she thinks and operates.

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i am falling apart and just trying to hold myself togather.


Then don't confront yet. Don't discuss anything with her until you can control your own emotions.

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should i expose to everyone and let everyone know i still want to work on my M.


I don't think you are ready for any moves such as that. You are desperate and wanting to do something to shock sense into her. However, you likely will kick it into higher gear if you go at this unprepared.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!