My story pt 2

[Kembo05]

On another note, she said she was OK to continue going to counseling together, she said she thought it was important for me to get things off of my chest and to tell her things I have held in. I simply said I didn't want to go to counseling for an avenue for my to get stuff off my chest. She back pedaled from that statement and said she wanted to keep going so we could learn to communicate effectively so we could have cordial conversations about our D2 during and after the D. I wanted to scream at her and say "why couldn't we work on this before you decided to file for D?!?!" but I kept my mouth shut

I told her I was OK to continue counseling but I told her I didn't want to use it as an avenue to become friends. I was polite and respectful about it, but I told her I don't want to be friends with her if she continues down this path; this isn't what friends do to each other. I told her I would be cordial and respectful about our D2, but I will not be her friend"

She then started talking about our "relationship" after D and I had to tell her again we won't have a relationship. We will communicate and see each other because of D2, but there will be no relationship if this is what she chooses to do.