Can someone explain to me if there is a different detachment approach for a wayward H versus wayward W? Also, same for dealing with ongoing affair? I want to make sure I am detaching and dealing with A in the right way. Most info I have seen is geared towards WW.

I can tell my H thinks I am mad at him and I assume that is normal. I am trying not to be cold, but by nature of pulling back it is going to seem that way. Just keep saying nothing is wrong? Or is it ok to verbally say I am moving forward with or with out you because of the choices you continue to make/ you have fired me as your wife?

Thanks

Last edited by BW05; 06/04/15 07:00 PM.
Me: 42 H: 40
M: 12
H moved out - 8/2015
I filed - 8/2015