Now a bunch a text photos about kids. I swear she leaves me confused. It's like she wants it both ways. Should I reply with cute or nice or just let it be and not say anything??? The photos are of the kids and the last day of school.
She always leaves me confused . If I respond does that mean I have grabbed the bait? If I don't I feel like a jerk.
I wouldn't say you grabbed the bait by responding, just keep doing what your doing. When she spews/rages don't let it get to you or react to it. When its about kids and polite respond and be polite. She seems to be wanting to manipulate you to getting her way, but you can still do what you have been doing without being controlled by her.
Originally Posted By: HeavyD
I don't want to send mixed messages
You said your peace on the L issue, don't worry about sending mixed signals if she cant accept that. Its her issue not listening to your stance on it, not yours. Shes going to keep being nice to get you to change your mind, control you. Then angry when its not working like she wants. She seems to do this quite often then place the blame back on you for how things are turning out.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
