Angels, If you can, take solace in the understanding we've all been where you are right now. I changed from a strong, confident man into a spineless puddle overnight. Be thankful that you have found this community. Unfortunately, it took me almost two months to find DB and this site. Get the books and read them! Begin to employ the DB strategies immediately for your own sanity.
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15