This is probably already long since past handled, but my vote on stuff like this is that if someone else wants to spring for the $$$ for my kids to take a trip, that's awesome.

If she decided to take this to a judge to get a ruling, she'd probably be granted the right to take the kids on the trip and you'd look like you were just trying to be ornery.

Three of my kids are grown and we had to share custody with exes for them, so, honestly, over time I promise these smaller decisions are no big deal. Save the arguments for bigger things that might really impact their well being.

Just my opinion.

Merged from thread #2

Last edited by Cadet; 06/04/15 06:18 PM.

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