Very true. Only thing different from before the A is I am a 100% better father. I wasn't a bad father before, but I was more hands off, I am all about my D2 now and nothing brightens my day more than spending time with her.
I also have started to GAL outside of our marriage; new friends, helping with church, etc.
This. These were things I always did but last couple of years allowed to drift. This is why I keep banging on about the 'old' NDY. He's not the guy she left. I don't know who the guy she left was or how he took over my body but there you go.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
