Thanks for the links. I have read most of them recently as i have been on here for the last month, i just had not signed up to post my own sotry.
So my question now as im clearly devastated and being eating alive on the inside with the fact i 100% know she is still in the affair and has phyically cheated. Do i confront? How should i do this while making it known i want to still attempt to fix our M? Should i tell her to leave? I feel like ive been a doormat to much and now she is just taking advantage, the typical having her cake and eating it too... obviously this make me feel terrible and while shes having fun, i am falling apart and just trying to hold myself togather. I dont get how someone can do this, and then come home and pretend like its mostly ok. Still kiss me, before work and bed, and lways returns it if i initiate
should i confront just her, or since i have becasscially tried that, should i expose to everyone and let everyone know i still want to work on my M. By everyone, i mean the close circle who know we have issues which she has lied about making me the bad person out of all this...
