Very true. Only thing different from before the A is I am a 100% better father. I wasn't a bad father before, but I was more hands off, I am all about my D2 now and nothing brightens my day more than spending time with her.

I also have started to GAL outside of our marriage; new friends, helping with church, etc.

She has noticed both things and it has affected her to an extent. Right now I think it is mainly bitterness that I wasn't like that beforehand

Me: 32 Her: 29
M: 5 T: 11
D2
ILYBINILWY: Jan 15
BD: 2/13/15 (I found out, she didn't tell me)
W filed for D after I confronted OM 5-27-15
Papers served 6-3-15
Temporary Order 7-15-15
W Moved out 7-17-15