Thanks Matt, I know lately I have definitely been focusing on the quality of time with my D2. I guess it shouldn't surprise me but my W is a teacher and she gets her all day during the summer and her initial request was I only see her every other weekend and on Wednesday's until the D is final; then it moves to joint custody. I feel like she is trying to bully me into expediting the D so i'm not missing on time with my D2

I see what you are saying about judging her actions, it's just hard to see how she thinks she has given it an honest effort. She was still emotionally connected to OM, and still may be! Yet she thinks she gave this, she gave us, a chance??

I really needed to hear "focus on the how and there is a lot you can learn. Implement the changes to you. You never know how W will react." this is something I definitely needed to read.


Me: 32 Her: 29
M: 5 T: 11
D2
ILYBINILWY: Jan 15
BD: 2/13/15 (I found out, she didn't tell me)
W filed for D after I confronted OM 5-27-15
Papers served 6-3-15
Temporary Order 7-15-15
W Moved out 7-17-15