Should I have said anything to H or not. Today I debate that fact. I did because I need my S to understand what is going on and if it affects my S I think I need to handle.
Truth is I won't know if H is telling the truth or lying and again this is probably why GAL is important. I am struggling with the fact that he says he wants to try and work toward getting back together however I don't see a lot of action on his part and if he is out seeing OW then I guess I need to decide if I want to hang in there and keep DBing or just let go.