Hoping I won't ever need a L. At this time H has no intention of serving me with the papers for the D, so nothing happens until that time. It's all on hold.

We start MC today. Don't know if it will get anywhere, but I will set small, action-oriented goals and work toward them in MC.

Since mlc takes years to work thru, I'm grateful he's not running to the courthouse yet. I'd rather keep working on us for as long as I can. If an A enters the pic, my H might quickly change his plans and decide he needs immediate freedom.

Wishing you well today! You still DB'ing or working on your D instead? They are pretty different approaches apart from the need to detach.

Hugs!

M: 16y
3 adult kids, 2 young kids
H filed D May/15, no svc yet
Do I not destroy my enemies when I make them my friends? ~ Abe Lincoln
WAKE UP. WORK HARD. FORGIVE. REPEAT.