Yes I did meet with him. He had to go pick up SD from girl guide camp so by the time he was free to meet it was 430. I had to leave for work at 6pm so that didn't leave us much time. We were going to meet for coffee then he said he didn't feel like coffe so he wanted to meet at Menchies ( a frozen yogurt place by my place.)
Yummie
I met him outside on a bench.
Great so far!
He gave me a hug and asked if I felt like going to the Sushi place next to Menchies instead as he was now starving after the long drive from camp. So off we went into the Sushi place.
Practical. Were there any other choices?
We ordered a few things to share and started to chat about everything except us.
well within Sandi guidelines.
It was not a place where you could have a private convo and we didn't have much time so I just went with the flow.
Several more meetings using this castle strategy.
We had an enjoyable time and had no problem keeping up a convo, he seemed to enjoy my company and would have stayed longer if I hadn't had to leave for work.
Keep it short. leave early be the first to move on. Be warm but busy with your life and GAL.
He hugged me again when I left and he paid for our meal.
So far so DB.
What I thought was going to be a coffee and talk ended up being more like a date.
dear one, not a date. A warm picnic style interaction. H may well back track. leave him to make the next contact.
So confusing. I don't know whether to ask to talk or just leave it and see what he does.
The latter. He seems very comfortable with me and more like his old self before BD. he even picked up my half eaten prawn and finished it. Lol
careful, get lots of GAL in. No expectations. It's very soon in the process. If he wants to piece he will be very upfront.
Seeing him more like his old self stirs old feelings in me. It's been almost three hrs and there is still a connection. I don't know what to think
There will be! You have been DB after all. That is what becoming someone only a fool will leave looks like isn't it?
Sounds ok, put it out of your mind and that's hard. Remember the castle and the picnic? It's worked for Edz. You are going to need more Intel aren't you Karma?
And a fireman or two to distract.
Lovely interactions.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
