Thanks Matt, honestly the past couple of days have been OK. I have been taking care of myself and I can see that it does have an effect on her. Yesterday was just tough, I know the D papers are just PAPERS, but seeing it all in writing was just a tough pill to swallow
My W is the best mother ever and it just doesn't make sense, and never will, that she is willing to give up time with our D2. I don't see how a once logical person can think this is what she needs to do to find some happiness/content. She hasn't given anything an honest effort yet.
I know I need to move on, and I will. I just hope/pray that her negative hopeless attitude can change as quick as her once positive/loving attitude did. We were talking about having another kid in a few months back in December of 2014, and a few weeks later she is talking about D being an option...
Me: 32 Her: 29 M: 5 T: 11 D2 ILYBINILWY: Jan 15 BD: 2/13/15 (I found out, she didn't tell me) W filed for D after I confronted OM 5-27-15 Papers served 6-3-15 Temporary Order 7-15-15 W Moved out 7-17-15